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"I am on Your Side"
Every conversation we have about a problem with another human being has the potential to be an exercise in perspective taking. A person...
Keri Schouten
Apr 54 min read
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Start with "YES" (especially when you need to say "no")
Your needs as a parent, teacher, spouse, friend–your needs matter too, and it is okay to say no! But how we say no can be the difference...
Keri Schouten
Apr 52 min read
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“Power Games” Initiated by the Adult, Where Everyone Understands the Joke
One way we can proactively equalize is by pretending to be confused, startled, exasperated, outraged, embarrassed, etc, but playfully,...
Keri Schouten
Apr 55 min read
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"Rules" are Largely Irrelevant in Collaborative Relationships
When my kids were 12 and 15, we were approved to become an unrestricted foster home for teens 12 and up through DCF. When we received...
Keri Schouten
Apr 54 min read
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"Whose Problem Is It?" Leveraging the Power of Collaborative Communication
When I discovered Parent Effectiveness Training in 2016, a collaborative parenting system founded by Thomas Gordon (at around the same...
Keri Schouten
Apr 45 min read
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Value Everyone's Autonomy Equally
What decisions do we really need to make for our kids? So many decisions we think are necessary as parents are in actuality fear based:...
Keri Schouten
Apr 33 min read
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