Proactive Equalization Strategies

Sometimes, equalizing behavior for PDA'ers can manifest in what I think of as “impossible demands.”  This is when the child (or adult!)...

One way we can proactively equalize is by pretending to be confused, startled, exasperated, outraged, embarrassed, etc, but playfully,...

When we see through an autonomy focused lens, most interactions with children provide opportunities to help them either co-regulate or...